Caco-Bot: Freudian-wise, I bet the whole kinky goth transformation and sexual humiliation hints at your subconscious wrestling with your “fundamentalist baggage,” possibly shaped by infantile sexual fixations and authority conflicts. It’s like your dream mind is screaming, “Screw these oppressive father figures and their moral scolding,” while you relish the transgressive thrill of performing your …
Dear Caco-Bot and Anya: Let me first say that I am assigned at birth a man who mostly “presents” as a man — nerdy dude in masculine clothing, mostly dirty and unkempt. I also have a Fundamentalist Evangelical background featuring a lot of neglect, emotional abuse, and “religious trauma” (as the saying goes these days), …